The rules for a good life in the United States are really quite simple

ProtectOurFreedom lists how to have a good life:

Get educated.
Marry. Stay married.
Have kids.
Get more education.
Put in long hours.
Be the very best at something.
Don't do drugs.
Don't be a single Mom.
Don't do crime.
Beat the competition.
Have a good work ethic.
Show up on time.
Be honest and don't lie.
Be clean.
Don't bad-mouth others.
Respect your elders.
Do unto others...

It's simple! If everyone beats the competition, everyone can be winners!